April 25, 2012

Lindsay and Jack

youaintgotjack

Lindsay, inspired to ride by her son Jack.

This guest post comes to us from Lindsay Aronson who blogs about life with her son Jack "a year of conquering self-doubt, fossil fuels and the terrible twos" at youaintgotjack.blogspot.ca.

I ride my bicycle with my child, because I wouldn’t ride it without him. I know myself. I’m lazy. I might take up cycling for a short-lived exercise regime, but I would never have become a non-driving member of society if it wasn’t for my son Jack.

It started last year, when, in a desperate attempt to rid myself of the nagging guilt I felt at leading my son into a life of inactivity, I hatched a crazy plan to not renew my driving license. I’m pretty sure even that would have been a fad, had I not very purposefully painted myself into a corner by starting a blog about my proposed journey.

Since January I have felt every emotion known to man, from severe regret to seemingly endless joy. The one constant has been the little guy behind me, always pushing me forward.

I only need look at Jack to feel reenergized and reaffirmed in my conviction to better our lives. Cycling hasn’t been a miracle cure to a lazy lifestyle, but it has been a vehicle to move me from A to B. Sometimes A equals home and B equals the grocery store. Other times A equals depression, guilt and regret and B equals change, energy and a more healthy future for us and the planet we call home.

There are still moments when I see pictures of myself on my Yuba Mundo and am quite overcome with shock. I feel like an imposter of sorts, especially when I compare myself to the other incredible cycling mothers of the blogging world. But I am a cyclist now and it’s finally starting to feel okay to say that out loud and in company.

Of course I have a long way to go, and about 150lb of weight until I am within recommended guidelines because the internal progress is not yet reflected on the outside. But I remind myself daily that I didn’t do this for myself, I did this for Jack- I wanted him to think bicycling was a part of life, not something you do to lose weight or stay healthy, but something you did to get some groceries or to visit your friends.

The goal of changing his life has been accomplished. Mine is taking a little longer. But we’re on our way and with my source of motivation always at my back, I can’t stop pedaling anytime soon.

Thanks for sharing your inspiring story, Lindsay!

Happy riding!

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April 25, 2012

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  • On a similar journey

    So great to have found this. I, too, was motivated to get back on a bike to be more active with my son and just began blogging about it. Unfortunately, giving up a car is not yet possible in the rural area I live, but we are on bikes more to do local errands. Looking forward to checking out your blog.
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    Posted by Dana June 11, 2012 23:53:21

  • Keep it up!

    So awesome. So inspiring. I got back on my bike about 2 years ago. I rode as a kid and somehow forgot over the past 20+ years how much I loved it. The commitment you are making is amazing. Before you know it, he will be riding next to you...which as a mother, makes us both happy and sad.

    Posted by Amy Schleicher May 30, 2012 14:21:25

  • For the future.

    Thank you for thinking of the future and coming generations. Every ride you take with your son teaches him values that will be crucial for him to take part in a sustainable future. Keep it up!

    Posted by Miguel@GJEL May 30, 2012 13:39:55

  • kudos to you

    Congrats Lindsay on your committment to modelingan active, more sustainable lifestyle for your son. I would add that you can model one more great habit by always wearing an ANSI approved helmet as well. Please protect yourself, as he, we, all want you around for a very long time! Keep on riding!

    Posted by Lorie Bickford May 30, 2012 13:13:02

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